• Interview with the Big Sister

    Date: 2015.03.30 | Category: Baby, Family, Home, Life, Me, Pregnancy, Sarah, Twins | Tags:

    I recently sat down with my almost 4-year-old to get her take on the impending arrival of her twin siblings.  She says all kinds of crazy things to me on any given day, as most all almost-four-year-olds do, so I couldn’t wait to pick her brain. She was also very excited about our little chat, despite the fact that she insisted on drinking chocolate milk the whole time and staring off into space.

    She took it upon herself to start our chat by telling me all the things that big sisters do.

    Sarah: “Big sisters change the diaper and they help take a baby down for a nap. And they help grownups feed them and rock them to sleep.”

    Me: “That’s right! Are you going to do all those things when your baby brother and baby sister get here?”

    Sarah: “Uh huh, I am. It’s so beautiful.”

    Me: “Are you excited about having a new brother and a new sister? Two babies?”

    Sarah: “Uh huh.”

    Me: “What are they going to look like?”

    Sarah: “Maybe their hair is going to grow when they get out of your tummy. I think brother’s eyes are going to be brown and sister’s eyes are going to be blue.”

    Me: “Oh that’s a good guess! When do you think they’re going to be born?”

    Sarah: “In spring!”

    Me: “Do you have a day picked out?”

    Sarah: “Uh huh.”

    Me: “What day do you think?”

    Sarah: “Um, I don’t know.”

    Me: “What do you think Norah is going to do when they get here?”

    Sarah: “I think she’s going to play with them.”

    Me: “Are you going to come to the hospital to meet them?”

    Sarah: “Uh huh.”

    Me: “What are you going to do when you get to the hospital?”

    Sarah: “Just be quiet.”

    Me: “Are you going to say anything to them?”

    Sarah: “I’m going to tell them a secret.”

    Me: “What kind of secret?”

    Sarah: “A princess secret. And it’s going to be aiwehriauwbfiwubefaiww. That’s what I’m going to say.”

    Me: “I couldn’t hear you, that was very quiet.”

    Sarah: “No, it’s secret talk like this (very quietly) ‘Do you want to have a tea party.. that’s what I’m whispering. (Regular voice) That’s a secret talk.”

    Me: “What are you going to do when mommy and daddy bring them home to our house and they start crying?”

    Sarah: “Take them down for a nap.”

    Me:  “Yea? How are you going to get them down for a nap?”

    Sarah: “Just rock them in the blue rocking chair. And I’m going to put them in that bed. Well I’m just going to climb up those things, and when they go to sleep I’m going to climb down those things.” [I’m guessing she’s referring to the step ladder I now have to use to get in and out of bed].

    Me: “What are you going to do when they cry in the middle of the night and they’re sleeping?”

    Sarah: “Um, I’m just going to stay in bed and just let you do that.”

    Me: “Oh, ok because that’s what mommies and daddies do?”

    Sarah: “Uh huh.”

    Me: “What do you think Leela and Bonnie are going to do when we bring them home?”

    Sarah: “I think they’re going to bark when they’re taking a nap.”

    Me: “Oh no, I hope not, that’s going to wake them up, huh?”

    Sarah: “Yea, they’re going to bark really loud.”

    Me: “What are you most excited about having a new brother and sister?”

    Sarah: “Um, changing their diaper.”

    Me: “That makes you excited?”

    Sarah: “Yep.”

    Me: “Alright, I’m glad I’m going to have such a good helper. Are you going to help me give them baths?”

    Sarah: “Yep…. but we need rags for them.”

    Me: “Are they going to have little bitty feet?”

    Sarah: “Yep! (holds hand up with fingers the size of a quarter) Like this tiny. And that’s what a big sister is for! I was a big sister when Bean [Norah] was little. When Bean was little like this, when she was this little (grape sized according to her hand).”

    Me: “You’re still her big sister, huh? And now you’re going to have another little sister and a little brother.”

    Sarah: “But can I be both their sisters? Can I be both their big sisters? But I can be their sis, too.”

    Me: “Yea, you can. Are you going to give them sweet, gentle hugs and kisses?”

    Sarah: “Uh huh, they’re going to be teenie weenie just like Teenie.” [I think the Teenie she is referring to is Nana's cat].

    And there you have it. Words of wisdom from a soon-to-be big sis of twins. I would have interviewed Norah too, but I have a feeling hers would have gone something like this:

    Norah: “Mama! Cracker! Cup! More! Dada!” The end.